Your Synastry with Hummingbird (Best Friend)

Elements & Archetypes

Aunt Starling leans Fire, Rising the Seeker, Sun the Sovereign, Moon the Nurturer.

Hummingbird leans Air, Rising the Healer, Sun the Diplomat, Moon the Mystic.

Together: Fire meets Air — compatible elements that naturally feed each other.

Returns That Touch You Two

When a return opens a fresh cycle for one of you, it lands on the other's chart. Here's what's coming.

The Cross-Aspects, In Detail

Every planet in your chart measured against every planet in Hummingbird's, to find the angles between them, where the two of you meet easily and where you rub. Showing the 25 strongest, in order. This is the CONTACT between your charts; the Davison chart below is the relationship's own.

1. Hummingbird's ☽ Moon in Pisces (6th house) ☍ opposition your ♀ Venus in Virgo (9th house) major · orb 0.91°
   For Aunt Starling: Your Venus in Virgo lives in your 9th house of philosophy and learning, so you tend to value clarity, precision, and intellectual compatibility in how you connect with people. Hummingbird's Piscean Moon in her 6th house of daily work and routines seeks emotional fluidity, intuition, and a softer approach to service, so where you want to refine and define, she naturally dissolves boundaries. This can create friction when you're trying to sort something out together and she's already moved on to feeling it instead.
   For Hummingbird: Your Moon in Pisces in your 6th house needs work and routines to feel emotionally grounding and a little dreamy, you're sensitive to the rhythm of your day and how people show up in it. Aunt Starling's Venus in Virgo in her 9th house brings a more analytical, idealistic energy to connection; she wants to explore ideas and refine how things work. You may find her intellectual approach to friendship a bit cold or detached when you're looking for someone to simply sit with you in what you're feeling.
2. Hummingbird's Descendant in Pisces (7th house) ☍ opposition your Midheaven in Virgo (10th house) major · orb 1.39°
   For Aunt Starling: Your Midheaven in Virgo shapes how you move through the world publicly, careful, competent, detail-oriented, and this is how authority and peers see you. Hummingbird's Descendant in Pisces, which mirrors how she meets others as equals, gravitates toward sensitivity, imagination, and spiritual connection in one-on-one bonds. She may sometimes see you as too buttoned-up or task-focused when she's hoping for something more intangible or accepting from a friend.
   For Hummingbird: Your Descendant in Pisces reflects what you naturally attract and seek in people you meet as equals, you're drawn to those who feel dreamy, accepting, or emotionally available. Aunt Starling's Midheaven in Virgo means she carries an air of precision and professional polish; she's someone the world trusts for competence and clarity. You might feel she's keeping something back or maintaining a boundary that leaves you wishing for more softness or spiritual kinship.
3. Hummingbird's ☽ Moon in Pisces (6th house) ☍ opposition your ☿ Mercury in Virgo (9th house) major · orb 5.85°
   For Aunt Starling: Your Mercury in Virgo in your 9th house means you think in systems, love to learn, and communicate with structure and nuance, you're always following the thread of an idea. Hummingbird's Moon in Pisces in her 6th house processes life emotionally and intuitively; she feels her way through work and daily experience rather than analyzing it. Conversations can feel lopsided: you're building frameworks while she's responding from mood and instinct, which can make her feel questioned or overwhelmed by your questions.
   For Hummingbird: Your Moon in Pisces in your 6th house means your emotional world is woven into how you work and move through your day, you're sensitive, intuitive, and sometimes scattered. Aunt Starling's Mercury in Virgo in her 9th house is sharp and seeking; she asks pointed questions and wants to understand the bigger picture. Her intensity of curiosity can feel intrusive when you're just trying to feel your way through something, and her logic can land like criticism even when she means it as interest.
4. Hummingbird's ♂ Mars in Aquarius (5th house) ☍ opposition your ♂ Mars in Leo (8th house) major · orb 1.78°
   For Aunt Starling: Your Mars in Leo in your 8th house burns with loyalty, intensity, and a need for genuine closeness in the things that matter most, you go deep. Hummingbird's Mars in Aquarius in her 5th house is independent, creative, and likes to keep some detachment and freedom even in things she cares about. You may feel she holds back or refuses to fully commit to your shared interests, while she may experience your depth as possessive or too heavy for what should be lighter play.
   For Hummingbird: Your Mars in Aquarius in your 5th house wants freedom, innovation, and a little distance even in friendships, you're drawn to creative expression and keeping things interesting without intensity. Aunt Starling's Mars in Leo in her 8th house is powerful and devoted; she loves with her whole being and expects the same back. She may feel hurt or rejected by what she reads as your cool detachment, while you may feel smothered by her need for deeper, more exclusive closeness.
5. Hummingbird's Imum Coeli in Sagittarius (4th house) ☌ conjunction your ♃ Jupiter in Sagittarius (1st house) major · orb 0.50°
   For Aunt Starling: Your Jupiter in Sagittarius sits in your 1st house, it's woven into how you show up in the world, your natural optimism and sense of possibility. Hummingbird's Imum Coeli in Sagittarius aligns with that same expansive belief system, but hers roots down into her 4th house, her foundation, her sense of belonging. She recognizes something familiar and true in how you move through life; your outlook feels like home to her.
   For Hummingbird: Your deepest sense of belonging, your ancestral and emotional foundation, resonates with Aunt Starling's core belief system. She carries the kind of faith and openness that reflects back to you where you come from. This creates an easy recognition: she's someone who speaks the language of your inner world without you having to explain it.
6. Hummingbird's Midheaven in Gemini (10th house) ☍ opposition your ♃ Jupiter in Sagittarius (1st house) major · orb 0.50°
   For Aunt Starling: Your Jupiter in Sagittarius in your 1st house is broad, optimistic, and generous in how you show up in the world, people see you as expansive and full of possibility. Hummingbird's Midheaven in Gemini in her 10th house is quick, curious, and multitasking; she's known for being versatile and keeping multiple conversations going. You may feel she scatters your energy or refuses to go all-in on shared adventures, while she may see your confidence as naive or your belief system as too rigid for a world that needs flexibility.
   For Hummingbird: Your Midheaven in Gemini means you're publicly known for being adaptable, communicative, and interested in many things, you move fluidly between worlds. Aunt Starling's Jupiter in Sagittarius in her 1st house radiates faith, warmth, and a desire to explore big ideas deeply; she can seem almost zealous about what she believes. Her intensity and singular focus can feel heavy to you, and you may worry that her optimism doesn't account for life's complexity or that she expects you to match her conviction.
7. Hummingbird's Rising in Virgo (1st house) ☌ conjunction your Midheaven in Virgo (10th house) major · orb 1.39°
   For Aunt Starling: Your Midheaven in Virgo shapes how you're seen in professional and public spaces, practical, precise, competent. Hummingbird's Virgo Rising is how she meets the world day-to-day. She sees you living out what she naturally embodies, which gives her a clear read on your public presence and can make her a trusted sounding board about how you're landing with others.
   For Hummingbird: How you appear to the world, your careful, discerning Virgo lens, aligns with how Aunt Starling builds her reputation and moves through authority spaces. She's someone you can trust to notice the same details you do. There's a comfortable efficiency to how you two understand each other's approach to work and public life.
8. Hummingbird's ♀ Venus in Libra (1st house) △ trine your Descendant in Gemini (7th house) major · orb 2.49°
   For Aunt Starling: Your Descendant in Gemini in your 7th house describes the relational qualities you naturally attract and value in people who matter to you, curiosity, lightness, communication. Hummingbird's Venus in Libra is how she expresses affection and creates harmony; it's a natural trine to what you seek. She brings balance and genuine interest to the way you connect, and she likely enjoys the communicative, varied rhythm that feels easy to you.
   For Hummingbird: Your Venus in Libra, how you give warmth and create harmony, flows naturally with how Aunt Starling relates to people she cares about. She values the kind of graceful, curious engagement you offer. There's little friction in how you two exchange affection and interest; it feels balanced and reciprocal.
9. Hummingbird's Descendant in Pisces (7th house) ☌ conjunction your Imum Coeli in Pisces (4th house) major · orb 1.39°
   For Aunt Starling: Your Imum Coeli in Pisces anchors your private world, your home, your roots, the emotional bedrock beneath everything. Hummingbird's Descendant in Pisces reflects the kind of person she's drawn to one-on-one: someone sensitive, intuitive, fluid. She recognizes something of her relational ideal in your inner foundation, which can create a deep sense of belonging between you.
   For Hummingbird: Your Descendant in Pisces describes who you naturally seek out as an equal, someone with emotional depth and a gentle intuition. Aunt Starling's Imum Coeli in Pisces is her private sanctuary, and that's where you find exactly what you're looking for in friendship. There's a spiritual or emotional recognition here that goes beyond words.
10. Hummingbird's Descendant in Pisces (7th house) □ square your ♃ Jupiter in Sagittarius (1st house) major · orb 1.37°
    For Aunt Starling: Your Jupiter in Sagittarius is expansive, restless, always reaching for the next horizon. Hummingbird's Descendant in Pisces seeks something gentler and more contained, someone who can stay present with her emotional world. The square between them means your natural optimism and push toward growth can sometimes feel at odds with what she needs from one-on-one connection; you may need to slow down and anchor yourself with her sometimes.
    For Hummingbird: Aunt Starling's Jupiter is big and generous, but it moves fast. Your Descendant in Pisces wants to linger, to merge, to understand the depths. When she's in her expansive, forward-moving mode, it can feel like she's leaving you behind. Finding moments to match her energy while asking her to match your pace creates more ease.
11. Hummingbird's ☽ Moon in Pisces (6th house) □ square your Descendant in Gemini (7th house) major · orb 5.12°
    For Aunt Starling: Your Descendant in Gemini sits in your 7th house of one-on-one relationships, so you naturally seek friends who are curious, communicative, and mentally quick. Hummingbird's Pisces Moon in her 6th house of work and daily routines runs on intuition, emotional absorption, and a need for quiet stability, so her instinctive pace and style can feel scattered or evasive when you're looking for direct conversation and clarity.
    For Hummingbird: Your Pisces Moon in your 6th house needs your work and routines to feel meaningful and emotionally safe, so you tend to merge your feelings into what you do. Aunt Starling's Descendant in Gemini pulls toward wit, variety, and intellectual sparring in her closest friendships, which can make your quieter, more intuitive way of relating feel overlooked or misunderstood by her.
12. Hummingbird's Rising in Virgo (1st house) ☍ opposition your Imum Coeli in Pisces (4th house) major · orb 1.39°
    For Aunt Starling: Your Imum Coeli in Pisces anchors you in a private, spiritual sense of belonging, your inner world is fluid and boundless. Hummingbird's Rising in Virgo is her public face: practical, discerning, and detail-oriented. She meets the world as someone who notices what's wrong and wants to fix it, which can clash with your need for a softer, less critical home base within the friendship.
    For Hummingbird: Your Virgo Rising is how you show up at first, efficient, observant, ready to help, and it's genuine. But Aunt Starling's Imum Coeli in Pisces is her deepest anchor; she needs the friendship to feel dreamy, accepting, and free from judgment. Your natural sharpness can make her inner sanctuary feel less safe than she needs.
13. Hummingbird's Midheaven in Gemini (10th house) □ square your ☿ Mercury in Virgo (9th house) major · orb 3.30°
    For Aunt Starling: Your Mercury in Virgo in your 9th house loves to study, question, and refine ideas through learning and travel. Hummingbird's Midheaven in Gemini in her 10th house is how she's known in the world, as someone versatile, communicative, and networked. She may move between ideas and people fluidly in her public life, while you're more committed to depth; this can make her seem inconsistent to you, or you overly rigid to her.
    For Hummingbird: Your Midheaven in Gemini is your public voice and reputation, you're seen as the one who knows people, adapts, and speaks well. Aunt Starling's Mercury in Virgo in her 9th house is where she does her real thinking; she goes deep into one subject and stays there. In friendship, she may wish you'd plant yourself more, or you may feel she's too narrow in her focus.
14. Hummingbird's Imum Coeli in Sagittarius (4th house) □ square your ☿ Mercury in Virgo (9th house) major · orb 3.30°
    For Aunt Starling: Your Mercury in Virgo in your 9th house is precise, analytical, and drawn to systems and truth; you want understanding to be clear and logical. Hummingbird's Imum Coeli in Sagittarius sits in her 4th house of roots and belonging, so her deepest sense of home is tied to freedom, expansion, and faith, not frameworks. When you dig into details, she may feel constrained; when she gestures toward the bigger picture, you may feel she's avoiding substance.
    For Hummingbird: Hummingbird's Imum Coeli in Sagittarius is her private truth: she needs to feel free and to trust in something larger than logic. Your Mercury in Virgo is sharp and wants to break things down to their parts. The friction happens because you're both right, but you're speaking different languages about what home and belonging mean.
15. Hummingbird's ☽ Moon in Pisces (6th house) □ square your Rising in Sagittarius (1st house) major · orb 5.12°
    For Aunt Starling: Your Rising in Sagittarius is optimistic, direct, and expansive, you come across as adventurous and unguarded. Hummingbird's Pisces Moon in her 6th house of work and service is tender, permeable, and easily overwhelmed by too much stimulation or bluntness. Your natural openness and enthusiasm can feel like a lot to her; she may withdraw or seem passive when you're being your most authentic self.
    For Hummingbird: Aunt Starling's Sagittarius Rising is bold and says what's on her mind without much filtering. Your Pisces Moon in your 6th house absorbs everything, noise, tone, emotion, and you need calm and gentleness, especially in the daily rhythm of the friendship. Her directness isn't cruel, but it can feel harsh to your sensitive, service-oriented nature.
16. Hummingbird's Rising in Virgo (1st house) □ square your ♃ Jupiter in Sagittarius (1st house) major · orb 1.37°
    For Aunt Starling: You come across as expansive and bold, your Jupiter in Sagittarius in your 1st house makes you seem generous with yourself and your opinions. Hummingbird's Virgo Rising meets the world with caution and precision, so your larger-than-life presence can feel overwhelming or scattered to her, especially in those first moments of connection.
    For Hummingbird: You naturally present as detail-oriented and measured, but Aunt Starling's Jupiter in her 1st house radiates confidence and optimism that can feel like too much, too fast. Your instinct is to question whether her enthusiasm is grounded, while she wonders why you seem to hold back.
17. Hummingbird's ☽ Moon in Pisces (6th house) □ square your ♃ Jupiter in Sagittarius (1st house) major · orb 9.65°
    For Aunt Starling: You have Jupiter in Sagittarius in your 1st house, you're naturally expansive, optimistic, and you show up as someone who believes things will work out. Hummingbird's Moon in Pisces sits in her 6th house, where she needs things to feel manageable, grounded, and safe in her daily life and work. Your boundless faith and big-picture thinking can sometimes overwhelm her need for smaller, steadier rhythms; she may feel you're not taking the practical weight of things seriously enough.
    For Hummingbird: Hummingbird, you feel things deeply and you need your routines and work life to be calm and ordered, that's where your Pisces Moon finds safety. You're meeting someone whose Jupiter radiates confidence and 'it'll be fine' energy right from the start. That optimism can feel freeing or it can feel reckless, depending on the day. When you're anxious about something concrete, her faith that things expand and resolve may land as dismissive of what actually matters to you in the moment.
18. Hummingbird's ☉ Sun in Libra (1st house) ⚹ sextile your ♂ Mars in Leo (8th house) major · orb 0.43°
    For Aunt Starling: Your Mars in Leo in your 8th house gives you courage and passion in deeper, more private spaces, you pursue what matters with intensity and loyalty. Hummingbird's Libra Sun sits right in her 1st house, so she meets the world as graceful, balanced, and fair-minded. This sextile flows easily: she sees you as someone genuine and unafraid to be direct about what you want, and she naturally responds with openness rather than defensiveness. There's a natural ease in how you two navigate honesty together.
    For Hummingbird: Hummingbird, your Libra Sun wants things to be balanced and you present yourself as reasonable and thoughtful. You're meeting someone whose Mars is in Leo deep in the 8th house, she's not afraid of intensity or getting into the real stuff. This aspect works well for you: you appreciate her courage, and she doesn't need you to be anything other than your diplomatic self. There's a natural give-and-take where her directness doesn't throw you off balance; instead, it steadies the friendship.
19. Hummingbird's Imum Coeli in Sagittarius (4th house) □ square your Midheaven in Virgo (10th house) major · orb 3.26°
    For Aunt Starling: Your Midheaven in Virgo in your 10th house is about building a careful, competent public reputation, you want to be known for your precision and reliability. Hummingbird's Imum Coeli in Sagittarius in her 4th house reflects a private, family foundation built on freedom and exploration, which can conflict with your need for order in the outer world; she may feel your career focus is too rigid.
    For Hummingbird: Your inner world and family roots are rooted in expansiveness and philosophy, but Aunt Starling's Virgo Midheaven is all about control and careful management of her public image. You may feel that she's too concerned with how things look or that she doesn't leave room for spontaneity in how she shows up to the world.
20. Hummingbird's Midheaven in Gemini (10th house) □ square your Midheaven in Virgo (10th house) major · orb 3.26°
    For Aunt Starling: You project a Virgo Midheaven to the world, competent, analytical, reliable. Hummingbird's Gemini Midheaven is more fluid and communicative, wanting to be seen as versatile and connected. In career or shared public roles, you may clash over style: you want precision and proven systems; she wants flexibility and multiple options.
    For Hummingbird: You're drawn to variety, communication, and adaptability in how you show up professionally or publicly. Aunt Starling's Virgo Midheaven is more fixed and methodical, which can feel limiting to you. Where you see opportunity to pivot and connect, she sees a need to refine and perfect what's already there.
21. Hummingbird's ♀ Venus in Libra (1st house) ⚹ sextile your Rising in Sagittarius (1st house) major · orb 2.49°
    For Aunt Starling: Hummingbird's Venus in Libra sits right in her 1st house, how she presents herself to the world, and it sextiles your Sagittarius Rising, the lens through which you meet everyone. There's an ease here; her natural grace and genuine interest in balance make a soft landing with your direct, expansive way of showing up. You two probably feel comfortable in each other's company from the start.
    For Hummingbird: Your Venus in your 1st house is part of how you naturally draw people in, you're attuned to harmony and fairness in how you carry yourself. Aunt Starling's Sagittarius Rising speaks a different language, more forthright and adventurous, but your sextile means you actually enjoy that difference rather than clash with it. She brings out the side of you that's willing to be a little bolder.
22. Hummingbird's ♄ Saturn in Aries (8th house) □ square your ♂ Mars in Leo (8th house) major · orb 2.80°
    For Aunt Starling: Your Mars in Leo in your 8th house is bold, direct, and wants intensity in shared spaces, whether that's emotional truth or creative collaboration. Hummingbird's Saturn in Aries in her 8th squares that, bringing caution and structure where you want to move fast. This can feel frustrating; she may seem to hold back or set limits just when you're ready to go deeper, but over time this friction teaches you both something about pacing and trust.
    For Hummingbird: Your Saturn in your 8th house makes you careful about vulnerability and shared intensity, you need boundaries to feel safe. Aunt Starling's Mars in Leo in her 8th wants to plunge in, to merge, to act on feeling. The square between you creates real tension; you may feel pushed, she may feel held at arm's length. This aspect asks you both to learn each other's rhythm rather than assume one way is right.
23. Hummingbird's Descendant in Pisces (7th house) ☍ opposition your ☿ Mercury in Virgo (9th house) major · orb 5.18°
    For Aunt Starling: Your Mercury in Virgo in your 9th house is philosophical, curious, and wants to understand the whole picture. Hummingbird's Descendant in Pisces sits opposite it, she attracts and seeks intuitive, emotional, sometimes nebulous people in one-on-one relationships. You think in facts; she relates in feelings and subtlety. This can create real misunderstanding; you may feel she's evasive, she may feel you're missing the point. The opposition asks you both to translate between logic and intuition rather than assume the other is being difficult.
    For Hummingbird: Your Descendant in Pisces speaks to how you meet people one-to-one, you're drawn to mystery, emotion, spiritual depth. Aunt Starling's Mercury in Virgo in her 9th is the opposite: clear-eyed, analytical, wanting to name and categorize. This opposition can feel like a language barrier in how you relate; you may sense she's too literal, she may think you're avoiding the practical. Yet this very difference keeps the friendship honest and pushes you both to grow.
24. Hummingbird's Rising in Virgo (1st house) ☌ conjunction your ☿ Mercury in Virgo (9th house) major · orb 5.18°
    For Aunt Starling: Hummingbird's Virgo Rising, her careful, observant first impression, conjuncts your Mercury in Virgo, but your Mercury lives in your 9th house of ideas and learning, not just small talk. She sees you as someone who thinks, and you recognize that quality in her immediately. You two can get lost in conversation, analysis, and the exchange of ideas in a way that feels effortless and genuinely nourishing.
    For Hummingbird: Your Virgo Rising is how the world sees you: discerning, thoughtful, precise. Aunt Starling's Mercury in Virgo conjuncts that, she thinks the way you present yourself, and it's like being understood without explanation. Her 9th house Mercury goes deeper than surface talk; she's interested in philosophy, meaning, the bigger picture. You two can discuss things that matter without ever feeling small or dismissed.
25. Hummingbird's ☉ Sun in Libra (1st house) △ trine your Descendant in Gemini (7th house) major · orb 7.94°
    For Aunt Starling: Your Descendant in Gemini in your 7th house speaks to what you seek in people you meet as equals, wit, flexibility, and someone who gets you intellectually. Hummingbird's Sun in Libra in her 1st house trines that beautifully; she is that person for you. She's fair-minded, communicative, and genuinely interested in you. This trine says she comes across as exactly the kind of person you're naturally drawn to, making the friendship feel like it was meant to work.
    For Hummingbird: Your Sun in Libra in your 1st house is who you are, balanced, relational, interested in others. Aunt Starling's Descendant in Gemini in her 7th house describes what she seeks in people, and your Sun trines it perfectly. You meet her need for someone curious, adaptable, and willing to talk things through. From her perspective, you're not just a friend; you're the kind of person she naturally gravitates toward and trusts.

The Davison Chart

This is not a comparison of your charts. It is a chart for the relationship itself, cast for the exact midpoint in time between the birthdays, at the midpoint in space between the birthplaces, so it is a real moment: on that day, at that spot, the sky genuinely looked like this. It has its own Sun, Moon and Rising sign, and you read it the way you would read a person's. The cross-aspect synastry elsewhere on this page is the other half, and it answers a different question.

Cast for 06 March 1938 at 05:49 UTC at 30.6°N, 49.8°E, the midpoint of 2 birthdays and birthplaces.

The Angles Inside This Chart

How this relationship's own planets sit relative to each other. Tightest first, a smaller orb means a stronger link.

• Mercury ⚹ sextile Rising · orb 0.5° · major
• Sun ☌ conjunction Mercury · orb 2.0° · major
• Sun ⚹ sextile Rising · orb 2.5° · major
• Jupiter □ square Rising · orb 5.1° · major
• Sun ☌ conjunction Venus · orb 7.3° · major
• Moon ☌ conjunction Rising · orb 7.7° · major
• Moon ⚹ sextile Mercury · orb 8.2° · major
• Moon ☌ conjunction Mars · orb 9.2° · major
• Moon ⚺ semisextile Saturn · orb 0.3° · minor